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Relationship BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED AS A MAN

Before you get married as a man
Before you get married as a man:

1) be prepared to provide for your wife and children as much as you're able & as long as you're healthy & your kids are still dependent.

2) know that your wife must not love you and she doesn't have to love you.

3) know that what your wife owes you are:

A) respect
B) submission
C) honor

4) Learn that for your wife to do point 3, you must earn it.

5) Make sure you have a, sustainable and legitimate income.

6) Ensure that you have dated your wife sincerely for a period not less than 6 months.

7) Ensure that it wasnever a long distance relationship.

8) Ensure that during your dating period, you cohabited at intervals.

9) Ensure that if your wife-to-be is not a virgin, that both of you are sure of your sexual compatibility. Except you wish not to indulge.

10) Know who her mother is. If she's a single mother or divorcee or the one calling the shots in their home, ensure you're fully convinced that she's different.

11) Make sure that you want to marry her because you're personally convinced that she's good for you and not because others said she is good.
12) Study the relationship between her and her father. The way she talks about him & where she places him and why?

13) Know who her friends are.

14) check to see if she has elder sisters that are of marriageable ages but no men in sight and why?

15) if she's a single mother, she should not be your 5th option.

16) Study her online presence, what she posts and how she interacts.

17) If she's too close to, or fond of a pastor, be careful because she will aways put her pastor first before you.

18) Ensure she's not the overtly religious type.
19) Make sure she can cook, clean and takes pride in it.

20) Study how she treats people around her, especially children.

21) If she's a business lady, study how she manages her business and if she's very diligent and accountable to it.

22) If she's a career lady, study if she values her career more than being a wife or mother.

23) Make sure your genotypes are a match.

24) Be prepared to be kind, selfless and deliberately committed to her.

25) Work on your anger issues, women can frustrate you and they will.

26) Love God, even if you're a-sinner.

27) Be willing to lead her and never depend on her money.

28) Be prepared to protect her from your family and protect your family from her.

29) Ensure you have not won her heart with money.

30) Know that once you choose a wife, you have chosen your destiny.

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