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Relationship THE ELEMENTARY FOUNDATIONS OF MARRIAGE EVERY COUPLE SHOULD RELEARN.

THE ELEMENTARY FOUNDATIONS OF MARRIAGE EVERY COUPLE SHOULD RELEARN.
How do you find a good time to talk to your spouse about an offense, when you've not established a quiet time routine in the home?

Many couples hardly have a quiet time where they just sit down to talk about their day and other matters in happy moments when there are no issues.

Many couples have no TV routines. I mean a TV program they watch together to Foster their intimacy and build that openness of access.

Many couples have no date night routines.

But whenever they have issues that's when they want to sit down and talk about it like a couple, which never works. Loud voices raised here and there. Harsh words exchanged here and there. In minutes it becomes a heated argument, then one gets angry and leaves the house, which extends to two weeks of malice, because you want to implement a strategy you haven't perfected over time.

The only time you want to watch a movie with your husband is when you have a complain to make.

The only time you want to eat dinner with your wife is when you want to politely scold her for something you're not happy about.

On a norm your marriage is vague, empty, lacking any system of sustenance when the ship goes south.

You don't even know the best time to talk to your spouse or the right place to do it, because you've not been practicing your access gates when you're in good times.

All of a sudden you want to take her out because you've offended her.

All of a sudden you want to make his favorite meal because you want to apologise.

All of a sudden you are declaring fasting and prayer in the home because you've started quarrelling alot.

All of a sudden you want the family to start fasting to settle quarrel.

But If there were no fights or offense you go on living without mastering the access gates of your spirit and emotions.

I believe couples still have a lot to learn about marriage, not only the new modern day systems of marriage, but also the elementary systems of marriage that has been consistent for marriages over generations.

1. Having a quiet time every day.

2. Having dedicated devotion times.

3. Having a consecration(fasting, devotion, prayers, Study, etc) you both observe and practice together.

4. Having strong spirited and disciplined friends as accountability figures.

5. Etc.

The best time to master your gates is in your moments of joy and friendship. Don't let malice and offense teach you how to talk to each other.


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